Jhene Aiko walked so Gabrielle Union could run.
The ass eating conversation that was inspired by Aiko’s “eat the booty like groceries” line from the Summer 2014 smash “Post To Be” has now taken on new life thanks to 44-year-old actress, and wife of Dwyane Wade, who spoke on eating ass this past weekend.
The Being Mary Jane star stopped by ‘Sway In The Morning‘ to promote her new memoir, We’re Going To Need More Wine, where receptivity in the bedroom became the center of discussion.
In response to the idea that most men do like their butt eaten, Union responded:
“That’s what they’re saying but that’s not what’s happening.”
As you can imagine, Union’s quotes had the internet in shambles this past Friday.
When Gabrielle Union asks if she can try your drink pic.twitter.com/wFC5csexnM
— EL Chapo (@Team__305) October 20, 2017
https://twitter.com/DragonflyJonez/status/921443451044007938?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw
Union told ‘The Breakfast Club’,
“Listen, it’s all about equality and a lot of times especially women feel like I’m going to lose him if I don’t do XYZ and there’s never any thought to the woman enjoying, or having any expectation of enjoying sex. I’m just a vessel for somebody else’s sexual gratification, and we have to take that back. We have to demand equality everywhere.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8PSzByBGpU
Gab had Twitter going up, but also ended up making room for a fruitful conversation on sex positivity.
Besides, Gabrielle never shies away from any topic, although her hubby may be slightly sick by her airing their business.
I was talking about is reciprocity. Sexual gratification should include BOTH partners. Women shouldnt be only givers. Used humor 2 mk the pt https://t.co/Rogy7cK3WI
— Gabrielle Union (@itsgabrielleu) October 21, 2017
I was talking about advice in my book #WereGonnaNeedMoreWine about sexual expectations & judgement. Y'all implied wht u wanted out of a joke https://t.co/Rogy7cK3WI
— Gabrielle Union (@itsgabrielleu) October 21, 2017
Judgement about sexual gratification is what keeps people sexually repressed & having uneven sexual experiences.
— Gabrielle Union (@itsgabrielleu) October 21, 2017
Whats shocking is that ppl are shocked that a grown ass woman has the balls to speak openly & honestly about sex. Y'all are comedy.
— Gabrielle Union (@itsgabrielleu) October 21, 2017
I'm 45 & just got married, sooo my sexual experience covers DECADES lol my sexual life didn't just start with my 2nd marriage. God bless yal
— Gabrielle Union (@itsgabrielleu) October 21, 2017
At the end of the day it’s all about what you’re comfortable with. Conversations like these, where we dispel the notion that someone is wrong or weird for doing what they love, is how more people end up satisfied in bed.
So props to Union for that.
If you’re a man out there that enjoys a little rim action from time to time, do you. Live your best life, King. Don’t let society prevent you from getting whatever pleasure you want.
When we become less judgmental as a people, you’ll start to see more individuality. And there is nothing wrong with that.